Baby Dale Bumpdate: Week 14

Week 14 marked the start of the second trimester, and as if right out of a textbook, my first trimester symptoms seem to have vanished right on schedule! I don’t want to claim I am completely out of the woods yet, but the majority of a week without morning sickness symptoms is an unprecedented miracle. Hopefully this trend continues!

I added a few more tracking details as I move into the second trimester to keep a record of how big my bump is getting (weight gain and belly measurement)! During the first trimester, I netted a weight gain of -1 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight and gained 2.5 inches around the belly. At my lowest, I was only down 2-3 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight due to the morning sickness but started gaining it back a little as the baby got bigger in later weeks. The doctor said that losing a pound (i.e. mostly maintaining weight) in the first trimester is totally normal for moms experiencing morning sickness, so I was happy to hear the baby was still getting what he/she needed from my prenatal vitamin (and whatever nutrients are in bagels with cream cheese!).

Anyway, enough babbling and on to week 14! :)

Week 14: February 21 – 27

Baby is now the size of: a lemon!
Weight Gain: -1 lb.
Belly Measures: +2.5 inches

I’m Feeling: like I am the queen of the universe! I think I have finally kicked the morning sickness symptoms (good riddance!) and am starting to have a normal appetite again! Wooooo! It is amazing how much better I feel when I can eat a real meal. Plus, it is so nice to have our dinner time ritual almost back to normal.
Physical Symptoms: I’m feeling a million times better! I was sick on Tuesday (February 21) and then again the next morning, but by that evening I had none of the usual nausea symptoms and was super hungry for dinner. I had no other morning sickness for the rest of the week!! I have been eating normal foods, though my digestive system is still readjusting after only eating bland carbs for 8 weeks so I haven’t pushed it too far. I have also been having a few abdomen muscle aches or pains this week as my body makes room for our growing babe. In addition, I have had some other minor aches and pains in my back and hips that seem to just be an adjustment to my changing body (mixed with my awful commute). Even my nose hasn’t been as stuffy this week! Hallelujah!
Movement: not feeling the baby move quite yet!
Sleep: sleep has been a little restless. Some nights I sleep like a rock, while others I toss and turn for hours trying to get comfortable. Sleep quality has been hit or miss so I think it may be time to invest in some additional pillows!
Food Cravings: Lemon! Give me all of the fruits and citrus! Now that my nausea is gone, I am starting to get my first real cravings. Frozen lemonade and a handful of Skittles made my week! Baby is going to have a sweet tooth for sure!
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? FINALLY NO!! So thrilled and relieved.
Miss Anything? not my morning sickness! Woooooooooo!

Can’t Live Without: fooooooood! So happy to be reunited with my old friend. Though I have still tried to keep my meals fairly tame for the time being until my system gets back to normal, it has been an absolute pleasure eating something besides bland carbs, cheese, and yogurt.
Best Moment This Week: finally feeling better! It was such a relief to get my appetite back and be able to keep food down! On Sunday, Walker and I went out to lunch at Pie & Burger, where we gorged ourselves on burgers (turkey for me), fries, and huge chocolate milkshakes just for fun! It was so nice to indulge a little bit and enjoy food again!
Looking Forward To/Excited About: so excited to find out the gender at the 20 week scan! We are so thrilled about the prospect of finding out that we are debating using a Groupon to book a 3D ultrasound for sometime in the next couple weeks so we can find out sooner! I am also really looking forward to beginning the nursery plans for our little one!

Notes: nothing noteworthy this week!

Baby Dale Bumpdate: First Trimester (Weeks 3-13)

Hello blog world! :) We shared some very exciting news on social media a couple weeks back: Walker and I are having a baby!!! We are so thrilled to be expanding our little family with our first baby (well, unless you count our fur baby) in August. Since most of our family and many friends all live far away, I wanted to get back into blogging again so we can share our pregnancy journey with you all!

If you have no interest in the weekly goings-on of my pregnancy so far, best stop reading now… this post is a long one, as it compiles all of my weekly logs for the first trimester! Going forward, I will post a quick weekly “bumpdate” to document our little adventure as it unfolds. Thank you again for your sweet well-wishes. This babe is already so lucky to be surrounded with such love!

So here we gooooooooo!

How I Found Out

After taking a couple of early pregnancy tests that turned out to be negative (or shadows of lines too faint to be definitive), I decided to take another test on the morning of Friday, December 9. At first when I looked at the test, I wasn’t sure I really saw anything. But after letting it sit another couple of minutes, I was beyond delighted to see the faintest of faint pink lines on the test! I immediately flopped on my bed a laughed, cried tears of joy, and prayed that this was really it! After two previous heartbreaking pregnancy losses over the past few months, I was so ready for a Christmas miracle! I couldn’t stop staring at that little faint line, hoping that this baby would stick. I knew it was silly to get my hopes up so early (only three weeks and two days pregnant!), but I really couldn’t help it!

Feeling overjoyed and more than a bit anxious, I got in the car to go to work. Mariah Carey’s “All I Want For Christmas Is You (‘You, Baby!’)” came on and I shamelessly wept through the entire thing with a smile on my face! It was all true: all I wanted for Christmas was you, baby… more than you will ever know. After replaying it about 30 times, I went to work and unsuccessfully tried to focus on work instead of on that little pink line. On lunch, I decided to go buy some supplies to create a fun way to tell Walker. I wasn’t ready yet, but I told myself that if my line was darker on the next morning’s test, I wanted to surprise him on Saturday!

How I Told Walker

As planned, I took a another pregnancy test on the morning of Saturday, December 10, and the line was shockingly much darker than the previous day (and darker than even the best lines I had received during my previous two losses)! I was so elated! Even though it was still so early and we had been so disappointed before, the strength of the morning’s line gave me hope and I knew it was definitely time to tell Walker. I felt that, for better or worse, I needed him along for the ride as soon as possible!

Armed with my supplies from the previous day, I wrapped up his surprise! I had purchased a little candy cane tube full of stickers, as it looked like it was the perfect size to fit a pregnancy test. I wrapped it with red paper, created stripes with iridescent tape, put the test inside, added a bow for the finishing touch, and placed it into his stocking. He immediately started asking about his stocking stuffer, so I told him that he should just open it! He protested for a minute, saying it wasn’t Christmas yet, but eventually gave in to my insisting.

When he opened the gift and saw the positive test, he was excited but definitely expressed a cautious optimism, not wanting to get his hopes up just yet after our previous losses. I understood completely, but the more we talked about the prospect and how hopeful I was feeling based on the strength of the positive line in comparison to previous experiences, the more inevitably excited we both got. In no time, we were both on cloud nine at the idea that this baby was even a possibility! We spent the entire day in the Christmas spirit, heightened exponentially by the idea that this could really be our little Christmas miracle!

Week 3: December 7 – 13

Baby is now the size of: smaller than a seed!

I’m Feeling: so overwhelmed with happiness that we are pregnant!!! Eeeeeeeeeeeee! At first, I really didn’t want to get my hopes up after all we have been through. However, as the week progressed and the pink lines were getting undeniably stronger every day, I couldn’t help but just let the excitement wash over me! I got blood work done on Mon, Dec 12, to test hormone levels, but have not had a chance to speak with the doctor about whether not the levels are on track (I will in the next few days into week 4… so anxious to finally get some good news!).
Physical Symptoms: nothing major so far at all, other than the occasional twinge in my uterus. I have also been constantly chilly (my body is too busy working hard to warm my fingers and toes!) and had a few nights of restless legs.
Movement: nothing yet of course, although it was very cool to feel twinges as my little blastocyst baby implanted!
Sleep: I’ve been a little tired, and having some pretty vivid dreams early in the week, but otherwise sleeping well!
Food Cravings: nothing yet!
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? no, thankfully!
Miss Anything? so far I am too over the moon to miss anything at all! Just so happy to be pregnant! Okay, okay… so I missed not being able to have a glass of champagne to celebrate at our tapas date night dinner on Saturday, but our little Christmas miracle is SO worth it! :)

Can’t Live Without: Walker! Oh, and First Response pregnancy tests! It was so amazing to see the pink lines getting stronger every single day! By the time the week was over, the test line was pretty much as dark as the control line! It makes me feel hopeful that our little one is growing and becoming a healthy little embryo!
Best Moment This Week: How to choose!? Finding out I was pregnant, telling Walker the incredible news, having a beautiful weekend of Christmas cheer with my handsome hubby, getting strong pink lines on all of my tests, and FINALLY getting a positive digital test are all contenders. It has been an absolutely amazing few days! :)
Looking Forward To/Excited About: EVERYTHING!!! I can’t wait to speak with the doctor about Monday’s blood work results to make sure things are progressing as they should. Assuming all is well, I am so excited to tell our families (in person!) over the next few weeks on our holiday travels!! Finally, I’m so psyched for our first doctor appointment!

Notes: Very faint positive on Friday, December 9 (9dpo). Faint positives on Saturday & Sunday, December 10 & 11. Standard positives on Monday & Tuesday, December 12 & 13. Blood work taken on Monday, December 12 (3w5d), that showed HCG was 62.2 and progesterone was 26.23!

Week 4: December 14 – 20

Baby is now the size of: a poppy seed!

I’m Feeling:  I was feeling a little nervous going in to week 4, as I had both prior early miscarriages around this time. However, seeing the test lines getting super dark (darker than the control line!), as well as getting great blood work results from the doctor made me hopeful that we were not in for the same fate this time around! After the test results, I felt over-the-moon excited and ready to share the news with a select few people!
Physical Symptoms: I had a few dull cramps at the end of week 3 and the first couple days of week 4 (right around my missed period) that made me a little nervous, since that was the time I lost the first two pregnancies. However, Aunt Flo was nowhere to be seen and the cramps faded, leaving me with just some bloating, chills, and restless legs!
Movement: not yet! I want this baby to stay put! :)
Sleep: I’ve been sleeping like a rock, with the exception of some restless legs before bed (cured with some stretching).
Food Cravings: nothing yet!
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? nope! I am managing to avoid morning sickness so far!
Miss Anything? not really, although it would have been fun to have a celebratory beer with my favorite graduate this weekend! :)

Can’t Live Without: my family! I love them all so much and am so grateful I got to spend such a special weekend (in the bitter cold!) celebrating with them. Also (once again) First Response pregnancy tests! Seeing those pink lines get darker and darker was the only thing that kept me sane this week!
Best Moment This Week: this is a toss up between seeing my brother graduate from college and telling my family that we are expecting! It was such an incredibly special weekend celebrating new adventures to come for all of the West family!
Looking Forward To/Excited About: SO MANY THINGS! I am excited to get my blood work results done at 5 weeks to make sure everything is on track. I am so so so pumped for the Christmas holiday in Nebraska next week with the Dales, especially because we intend to surprise them with our good news on Christmas Eve (and then tell his grandparents on Christmas day)!! I am also looking forward to getting back to California and having our 6(-ish… almost 7) week appointment with the nurse practitioner on January 3rd to go over the basics and do additional blood work!

Notes: Standard positive on Wednesday, December 14. Blood work taken on Wednesday, December 14, that showed HCG was 184.1 and progesterone was 24.34! Strong positives from Thursday, December 15, to Tuesday, December 20.

Week 5: December 21 – 27

Baby is now the size of: a peppercorn!

I’m Feeling: full of holiday cheer! My heart is full. It was another very special week, getting great blood work results and then sharing our great news with all of the Dales! I feel like I have been floating around on a happy little Christmas cloud,  soaking up all of the love and excitement surrounding us now that both families know about our little Christmas miracle!
Physical Symptoms: right on cue, my first wave of nausea decided to hit me as we were sitting in the airport waiting to get on our flights for Nebraska! Bahhhh! Surviving on carbohydrates, yogurt, and spearmint gum, I managed to make it in one piece! Otherwise, my previous symptoms of chills, bloating, a little fatigue, and restless legs have continued.
Movement: nope!
Sleep: sleeping in a new bed was a little tough on the sleeping routine this week, but I slept fairly well for the most part. My restless legs were definitely a factor in having trouble falling asleep too, but stretching helped!
Food Cravings: starting the day after Christmas, I started to crave citrus and bright, fresh flavors. According to an old wives’ tale, that could mean I am having a girl!
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? nothing specific is causing it, but I am definitely queasy throughout the day!
Miss Anything? by the end of week 5, I was starting to miss my appetite! Food aversions were starting to creep in and change meal time for me! Food I usually love started to sound “meh” to me.

Can’t Live Without: the Dales! All of them! Sharing our news with Walker’s family was just incredible. My favorite part was hearing everyone’s stories about their own experiences with pregnancy and starting a family, as well as tales from the boys as babies! It was so great to enjoy the advice, support, and laughs.
Best Moment This Week: telling the Dales that we are expecting, of course! It came in a few waves. First, we told Ben & Karen on the 23rd. Then we surprised Bob & Susan on Christmas Eve. Finally, we told Grandma, Grandpa, Meg, Samantha, and Joel on Christmas Day. It was so much fun to see the look of surprise on everyone’s faces as they realized we were adding a little one to the family!
Looking Forward To/Excited About: looking forward to New Years Eve and Day with my hubby! As much as we will miss everyone, it will be nice to get home and have a few days to relax together before we have to go back to the real world! Also, I can’t wait for our first appointment with the nurse practitioner on Jan 3rd!

Notes: Strong positive on Wednesday, December 21, and my last pregnancy test! Blood work taken on Wednesday, December 21, that showed HCG was 5975.5 and progesterone was 21.37!

Week 6: December 28 – January 3

Baby is now the size of: a sweet pea!

I’m Feeling: like this is starting to feel real! Concluding the week with our nurse practitioners appointment and scheduling our 8 and 12 week scans made this whole thing feel like it is actually happening (not just in the beginning stages of something that will happen soon)! I am grateful that we had the holidays and traveling as a distraction for some of the early weeks before things started really rolling.
Physical Symptoms: chills, bloating, restless legs, nausea, and a little fatigue as usual, but I did actually get sick once this week for the first time as well (before heading to the airport again, of course… perfect timing!).
Movement: nothing yet!
Sleep: I slept so well once I was back in my own bed!
Food Cravings: lemon and ginger (a nausea life saver)! I have also found having milk or kefir in the mornings quenches my thirst and soothes my stomach a little bit, making breakfast more palatable.
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? brushing my teeth!! Ugh! Surviving the process without feeling nauseous or getting sick is a rare and huge accomplishment.
Miss Anything? nothing really! I feel very content this week. Ben & Karen were even sweet enough to bring sparkling cider to New Years Eve so I had something bubbly to drink at midnight! :)

Can’t Live Without: ginger mints from Trader Joes! Especially when I was traveling back to California, the ginger helped soothe my nausea while we were out and about. At home, I have been drinking a lemon ginger tea for the same effect.
Best Moment This Week: celebrating the 6th anniversary of our first date on New Years Day with my sweet hubby! As our fun tradition requires, we ate lunch at Granville, our first date restaurant, and found a photo booth to take some silly photos. It is always so wonderful to start the new year full of love, nostalgia, and excitement for the future! Another great moment this week was our nurse practitioner’s appointment on Tuesday (January 3). The nurse gave us a brief overview of the next few months, answered some of our questions, gave us a ton of info, and let us schedule our 8 week scan!
Looking Forward To/Excited About: our 8 week ultrasound on Friday, January 13!!! I am so excited to see our little peanut and hopefully see/hear a strong heartbeat! Oh, and Walker’s 34th birthday on January 4 and my 30th birthday on January 11 will be pretty cool too! BUT NOT NEARLY AS COOL AS ULTRASOUND DAY!!

Notes: Blood work taken on Tuesday, January 3, that showed HCG was 97043.9 (!!) and progesterone was 16.10. Although the nurse was happy with the HCG, she doesn’t want progesterone to drop below 15, so she is having me retest in a week.

Week 7: January 4 – 10

Baby is now the size of: a blueberry!

I’m Feeling: so happy! I got nervous when my symptoms seemed to disappear for a couple days, but they reappeared with a vengeance. Also, it was a relief to get blood work done at the end of the week confirming my progesterone looked great! Otherwise, it has been fun to celebrate Walker’s 34th birthday and start to the new year with our little secret!
Physical Symptoms: morning sickness has indeed become often getting sick in the mornings in addition to the random waves of nausea throughout the day. Toward the end of the week, it switched to night sickness! I am also beginning to feel like my little belly is no longer just bloating… I really can’t suck it in anymore! No bump yet but definitely thickening up! In addition, this week brought with it food aversions and a lack of appetite. Still battling chills and fatigue as well.
Movement: nothing yet!
Sleep: sleep has been fine! Restless legs seems to have calmed down a little bit, which has helped with falling asleep too.
Food Cravings: I have been having food aversions rather than food cravings. Or rather, the aversion to most food in general. The waves of no appetite come and go, but when they do, the only things that seem to help are chocolate chip power bars and any bland carbs.
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? brushing my teeth is still a struggle! But nothing else specific is triggering nausea.
Miss Anything? on the days that I have no appetite, I miss wanting to eat normal meals! And on the days where I can eat normal food, I miss being able to keep it down.

Can’t Live Without: chocolate chip Cliff Bars! I have one in the morning before I get out of bed, and it started to help with the morning part of the morning sickness. I have also been able to munch on them when my appetite is otherwise gone.
Best Moment This Week: Walker’s 34th birthday!! On his actual birthday, we celebrated with Ben & Karen by ordering some yummy food and giving him gifts (tickets to The Zombie’s concert in April!). Then we had a really nice co-birthday dinner date at Union on Saturday night, followed by a homemade spice cake I made. Thankfully I was feeling fine that day and was able to indulge! Walker is the best human in the whole world, so it was a blast celebrating him this week! :)
Looking Forward To/Excited About: I am sooooooo excited for our ultrasound next week! We have it scheduled for Friday, January 13, and I can’t wait to see our little peanut! I am also looking forward to celebrating my 30th birthday next week, but the real birthday gift will be the ultrasound two days later! :)

Notes: Blood work taken on Tuesday, January 10, that showed progesterone was 24.1! The nurse practitioner said that number was great and that we didn’t have anything to worry about! Yay!

Week 8: January 11 – 16

Baby is now the size of: a raspberry!

I’m Feeling: OVER THE MOON! Seeing our baby on the ultrasound was the most magical experience. I was immediately relieved when the doctor found our little peanut right away and showed us the flickering heartbeat! It was so emotional and special… plus the technology was fascinating! I couldn’t stop smiling and looking at the photos all day! :)
Physical Symptoms: morning sickness and food aversions have hit me full force this week. Oooof. I have been living on Cliff Bars, carbs, yogurt, and cheese. Even those things I have trouble keeping down, but at least I can eat them! Fatigue has also increased this week, so my feet have been dragging. I have been super thirsty, and am always either hot or cold! Finally, I am starting to get that pregnant mama super sense of smell, which I am sure won’t help my nausea in the future!
Movement: nothing yet, but the baby was definitely moving around a ton on the ultrasound, flapping it’s little paddle hands and feet! It was so cool to watch! It will be several weeks before I am able to feel it, though.
Sleep: I will take all the sleep I can get! I have been super tired, napping whenever I can and sleeping soundly.
Food Cravings: nothing! Unless it is a bagel with cream cheese or a cracker, I’m not interested haha! My appetite is constantly minimal, but then one minute later I will be ravenous (even though nothing sounds good to eat)!
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? brushing my teeth is getting easier. Nothing specific sets off my nausea, but most food sounds terrible! Plus my sense of smell is starting to increase, so I am sure there are more bouts of nausea to come.
Miss Anything? normal food! I can’t wait until the morning sickness subsides so that I can go back to enjoying eating normal meals complete with all food groups! It is frustrating suddenly being such a picky eater.

Can’t Live Without: technology! Being able to finally see our baby and heartbeat was indescribable! :)
Best Moment This Week: OUR FIRST ULTRASOUND! Walker and I squeezed each other’s hands so tightly at the first sight of our babe, and I definitely let a few tears fall! It was a relief to see and hear that all was going well! Also, my 30th birthday was super fun! We ordered food (mac and cheese was all I could handle!) with Ben & Karen, and I received some very sweet gifts! Walker even made me a delicious peanut butter pretzel ice cream pie! Mmmmmm!
Looking Forward To/Excited About: now that we know baby is strong and growing on track, I am really looking forward to being able to tell people we are expecting! Also, I really can’t wait for morning sickness to wane.

Notes: the ultrasound on January 13 showed I was actually measuring 8 weeks 5 days instead of 8 weeks 2 days (or 8 weeks 3 days according to their calendar based on my last menstrual period rather than conception date). However, since it was so close to what she expected, she said the due date will stay the same: August 22nd! I was tracking a day behind so I updated all of my trackers to reflect the doctor’s due date. Baby’s heartbeat was a strong 161bpm!

Week 9: January 17 – 23

Baby is now the size of: a grape!

I’m Feeling: this week has sort of kicked my butt! I was sick most of the week with an awful head cold and couldn’t seem to get rid of it. Finally I got a good night’s sleep over the weekend that did the trick, but it made for a long, tired week. However, we are getting ready to start telling people we are expecting, so the planning has been super fun!
Physical Symptoms: not sure if it was pregnancy or just a bad head cold, but I had a horrible runny nose and post-nasal drip! The fatigue was also at its worst yet, but that could also be because I was sick. Add some restless legs and headaches into the mix and that’s week 9! However, I’m starting to really get thick around the belly (but have not gained any weight) so hopefully that means I’ll start really showing soon!
Movement: nothing yet!
Sleep: being sick made sleeping a bit difficult, but seemed to get back to regular sleeping habits by the end of the week.
Food Cravings: I don’t have many specific cravings, although I think my body is starting to miss fresh foods (since I have only been able to manage bland carbs for the most part). Tomatoes have been particularly delicious this week!
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? post-nasal drip has certainly NOT helped my nausea this week. I am still having trouble with a really limited appetite and keeping anything down in the early morning or all evening.
Miss Anything? once again, I miss eating normally! I really can’t wait until my appetite is back and I am not spending half the day hunched over the porcelain throne. Also, having a head cold made me miss being able to take medicine.

Can’t Live Without: toss up between bagels & cream cheese and lemon ginger tea. I have survived on both this week!
Best Moment This Week: participating in the Women’s March on Washington this weekend! Karen and I marched in solidarity with 750,000 people in the streets of Downtown LA in the honor of women’s equality, civil liberties, and human rights. We marched for the protection of rights, safety, health, and families for all. It made me proud to be a part of the largest single day protest in US history, with about 3-4 million people marching throughout the US. It was a peaceful but moving experience that was so inspiring… and it felt particularly poignant knowing I had a member of the future generation growing inside of me. I marched for my baby.
Looking Forward To/Excited About: I can’t wait for my appointment with the doctor next week! It should be a short one, but nice to meet with her directly for the first time in the pregnancy. I am also so so so excited to tell my Nana we are having a baby (her gift should be arriving this week!). Finally, I am beyond excited for our next ultrasound in a few weeks!

Notes: nothing noteworthy this week!

Week 10: January 24 – 30

Baby is now the size of: a strawberry!

I’m Feeling: SO HAPPY! I was surprised by a quick, unexpected mini ultrasound at my 10 week appointment with my doctor! I thought it was just an appointment for answering questions, so when she rolled in the portable ultrasound machine, I was thrilled! I only got a quick glance, but saw the heartbeat and watched baby wiggle around like crazy! I couldn’t stop smiling after that! How lucky to get a surprise glimpse. We also started telling some family and close friends this week, so that was incredible!
Physical Symptoms: still having most of the same symptoms: early morning and all evening sickness, fatigue, and chills. But I am definitely growing around the belly, even though I have actually lost weight. My belly feels firmer as well!
Movement: not feeling anything yet but baby was dancing around a ton on the ultrasound… our peanut even tried to hide from the doctor! It has been fun asking other moms when they first felt their babies move and what it felt like!
Sleep: sleep has been great! I crash hard every night!
Food Cravings: food cravings are about the same… not so much cravings as total lack of appetite. Thank goodness for bagels and cream cheese!
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? brushing my teeth is still really killing me. Most mornings and some evenings this week, the spitting-out-the-toothpaste part of the process has sent me running for the toilet. Yuck!
Miss Anything? nothing I can think of this week! I have been so content… and everything has been made even better by sharing our news with some family and friends!

Can’t Live Without: bagels and cream cheese! Otherwise I would probably have already starved to death.
Best Moment This Week: toss up between three things! The surprise ultrasound made my heart burst with happiness! Then telling close California friends at our BBQ on Saturday was so wonderful! But perhaps the best part of the week was video chatting my Nana to tell her our big news! We sent a onesie to my parents that said “I <3 My Great Nana”. We watched her open the gift, and her reaction was amazing (we got it on video)! She absolutely lit up and was so excited for us! It was such a special moment, and we spent the next half hour or so sharing stories about our pregnancy and all of hers.
Looking Forward To/Excited About: can’t wait for our 12 week ultrasound! Every time we get to see our little one is a ray of sunshine in our lives. We are also excited to keep telling friends and family over the next week before we publicly announce that we are expecting!

Notes: the ultrasound on January 25 showed I was actually measuring 11 weeks instead of 10 weeks 1 day! However, the doctor said she will wait until our full 12 week ultrasound to move the due date up if we are still measuring ahead.

Week 11: January 31 – February 6

Baby is now the size of: a lime!

I’m Feeling: so happy to continue to share our news with family and close friends! The more people we tell, the more real it all seems! Plus, my belly is starting to pop out a bit, so that also adds to the fun. Every day that I look a a little bigger, it feels like a step toward the second trimester (and saying goodbye to morning sickness)!
Physical Symptoms: I feel like my belly really had it’s first growth spurt this week. By the end of the week, I felt like I had the start of a real baby bump! It is still so subtle, but when I look at images of my belly compared to the last couple of weeks, it is starting to have the signature bump look! Yay! Otherwise, symptoms have been the same. No signs of the morning sickness letting up quite yet, unfortunately!
Movement: nada.
Sleep: we have had a guest in the house all week, so our sleep routines are a little off. But sleeping well for the most part!
Food Cravings: still no major cravings, though I was able to slightly branch out on which limited foods sounded appealing this week. Perhaps it is a sign that the morning sickness is waning? Please?
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? just brushing my teeth… especially in the morning this week. Brutal!
Miss Anything? sleeping on my stomach and not feeling guilty! I know I am supposed to be training myself to always sleep on my side, but I can’t help it! Even when I fall asleep on my side, I consistently wake up on my belly. I know it will become impossible to tummy sleep at some point, but I wish unconscious Erika had a little more willpower so the transition wouldn’t be so difficult down the line! Maybe it is already time to start researching pregnancy pillows…

Can’t Live Without: Walker. I just love that man with my whole heart!
Best Moment This Week: this is sort of a lame one, but we paid of two thirds of our debt this week (yay!), made a financial plan to pay off the last little bit within the year (double yay!), and reinvested some of our old 401k money that was just sitting dormant. Bored yet haha? Well it wasn’t particularly glamorous, but it felt amazing to know that we were going to start off our new life as a family of three with a financial clean slate.
Looking Forward To/Excited About: OUR 12 WEEK SCAN NEXT WEEK! I can’t wait to see our babe. Also, I am so excited to start really showing so I can start flaunting my bump! I have been wearing loose clothes to hide my little round belly, but I am so pumped to have my bump out and proud!

Notes: nothing noteworthy this week!

Week 12: February 7 – 13

Baby is now the size of: a plum!

I’m Feeling: SO WONDERFUL! We got to see our little one again this week for our 12 week ultrasound! The baby looked SO much bigger and more human-shaped than just two weeks ago. It is so amazing how quickly he or she is developing! Walker and I were very emotional at this scan, since it all seemed so much more real! Grow, baby, grow!
Physical Symptoms: my belly is really starting to grow! The little bump is visible and is getting harder to hide under my clothes (which I only have to do for one more week!). Eeeeeee! My morning sickness has seemingly let up a little, but keeps rearing its ugly head every other day or so. Hopefully that means it is almost over! I am really looking forward to feeling a little better soon. I felt a few aches/cramps this week as well as my uterus is growing and making room for baby!
Movement: the baby was flopping around so much during our ultrasound that the nurse said it was going to take her a while to get all of her measurements! Our little one kept straightening his/her legs, which would send the rest of his/her body flying upwards! We could see the babe flapping its arms too, which we assumed was a wave for us. The only time the baby stayed still the entire time was when Walker tried to take a video. Camera shy?
Sleep: sleeping like a log! Stomach sleeping is becoming more difficult, so I have been mostly sleeping on my side.
Food Cravings: nothing new here… mostly just still having no appetite at all.
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? nothing other than brushing my teeth still really directly triggers nausea. In addition, my morning sickness has actually been a little better this week… perhaps the tides are turning?! Please?
Miss Anything? nothing this week… getting to see my little one is the perfect reminder that anything I might miss a little bit is all so beyond worth the sacrifice!

Can’t Live Without: once again, technology! I wish I could have my own ultrasound machine at home so I could see our little peanut whenever I want! I live for these little glimpses, since it is still too early to feel the baby.
Best Moment This Week: easy… seeing our baby again! Squeezing Walker’s hand while we watched our little one moving around in there was so magical. There are no words to describe the happiness (and relief) I felt seeing that our babe developing as expected and to see/hear that strong heartbeat!
Looking Forward To/Excited About: at our appointment, one of the nurses helped us schedule all future regular appointments for the entire pregnancy! It was so much fun to see a list of everything we have in store. Looking forward to the entire timeline! We are also planning on announcing our pregnancy publicly next week, so I am soooo excited for that!

Notes: the ultrasound on February 9 showed I was measuring 12 weeks 4 days instead of 12 weeks 2 days. However, since it was so close to what was expected, the due date will stay the same: August 22nd! Baby’s heartbeat was 149bpm!

Week 13: February 14 – 20

Baby is now the size of: a peach!

I’m Feeling: so surrounded by love! When we announced publicly on February 14 that our little Valentine was due in August, so many people went out of their way to send us well-wishes and love! It was exciting and humbling to see how many people already adore this little babe! He or she is going to be so incredibly lucky to have a life full of such love.
Physical Symptoms: remember last week when I thought my symptoms might be easing up? I was very, very wrong. I was so sick this week, having several days where I had trouble keeping anything down at all! Thankfully, since we announced our news, I had lots of new moms send me helpful coping tips! Hopefully something will work to ease the morning sickness! Otherwise, I am still a pound down but my belly grew another half inch!
Movement: nothing yet! It is still too early to feel anything, but hopefully I will in the next few weeks!
Sleep: sleep is starting to get a little restless as I am adjusting to finding ways to get comfortable sleeping on my side. Also, I’ve been getting sick right before bed, which ends up making me feel wide awake just as I am planning to tuck in.
Food Cravings: I was feeling terrible but I my craving for lemon, citrus, and fruit flavors really seemed to be more pronounced this week. I have been able to settle my stomach at night with a frozen lemonade treat. Delicious.
Anything Making You Queasy or Sick? all food! I am SO looking forward for the morning sickness to end.
Miss Anything? eating dinner (or any meal for that matter!) with my hubby! The nausea hit me so hard (at night especially) this week that I ended up just eating bland cereal or granola bars while Walker ate real food. I can’t wait to have our evenings back to normal, instead of me hanging my head over the toilet for half the night.

Can’t Live Without: frozen lemonade! After a tip from a friend saying frozen things soothed her nausea, I ran out and grabbed some frozen lemonade cups to see if it worked. It wasn’t a cure-all but it certainly helped temporarily relieve the worst of it! Plus they are delicious, so that helps too!
Best Moment This Week: announcing our pregnancy publicly on social media. Even though we had already told most close friends and family, it was a blast to announce to our entire circle of friends that we have a little one on the way. People were so sweet with their outpouring of love. Plus, we did it on Valentine’s Day, so it gave me an excuse to buy and wear a shirt with a big red heart on the belly for my babe!
Looking Forward To/Excited About: really looking forward to moving into the second trimester and hopefully feeling better soon! I am also so beyond thrilled to learn the baby’s gender, even though we have to wait another 7 WEEKS for our 20 week scan. But not knowing yet is also a fun part of this adventure, so I don’t want to wish it away in the slightest!

Notes: nothing noteworthy this week!

Palm Springs – Modernism Week 2016

Happy Tuesday, my friends! I hope everyone has been having a wonderful March! Walker and I have been busy moving into our new place (updates soon!), getting settled, and hosting his wonderful parents for a week. It has been a whirlwind of a month, but the moving process is finally over, and we got to celebrate our new place with family. It doesn’t get much better than that!

During the packing process, I got to escape the madness for a few days and go to Palm Springs to help Michael install his room at the annual Modernism Week Showcase House. Last year, Michael designed the front patio. This year, Michael Berman Limited designed the hub of the house, the huge living room! The installation was a blast, and (though I may be biased) I think Team Berman knocked it out of the park bringing Michael’s designs to life! Here are a few photos taken by Laure Joliet of our space:

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

© 2016, Laure Joliet (http://www.laurejoliet.com/)

Team Berman! :)

Team Berman! :)

There are several more pictures of the entire experience on my Instagram as well. I will happily share more photos once they are available. It was a very exciting project, and I am so grateful to have been a part of it as a member of Team Berman!